DOM
MARMION SEMINAR
Dom
Marmion House, Dundrum, Dublin 14
11
October 2003
MARMION'S
VOCATION AND OUR OWN
By
Rev
Dr Kevin Kennedy, PP, D Eccles H.
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Every man, every woman, is an image of God, unique and unrepeatable. In
some immeasurable way we are, each of us, like God. God reveals himself to us in
those around us, showing us His mystery and His wonder, which is why each human
being is mysterious, and in a way immeasurable. God calls each one of us in life.
Every one of us has a vocation. In the first place, God calls each one of us
into existence. And then he calls each one of us to be what he wants us to be in
life, and to do what he wants each one of us to do. The saints are those he
calls to be an example to the rest of us. Their role is to teach us, by what
they say and do, how to imitate Christ in our own time and circumstances. Christ
is the complete pattern for all of us, in his fulfillment of the Father's will.
The saints show us how to recognise this pattern in our own world. It is through
the circumstances of every day that God leads us to the following of this
pattern in our own time and place. There is a photograph of Joseph
Marmion's family, taken when he was a young boy, which is reproduced in Father
Mark Tiemey's biography. All the members of the family have been carefully
arranged, most likely in a photographer's studio, the parents dignified - the
father clearly smiling and in good humour, with a degree of relaxation which is
not common in photos of the time. The children are attractive and lovable as
only young people can be, the girls elegant in elaborate and voluminous dresses.
The three boys are the youngest in the group, Joseph, the eldest of these,
clearly dressed in the black he always wore, because it was already decided that
he would prepare for the priesthood. All through Europe it was a time of
economic progress and development for the middle classes, and they took
themselves seriously everywhere. Irish Catholics took their religious practise
with great seriousness. Their faith was strong, and the memory of persecution,
and second-class status on account of it, was very recent. Their Catholic faith
influenced their outlook on every detail of their lives in a way which would
surprise most of us today. My own great-grandfather, who would have been an
exact contemporary of Joseph Marmion's father, like him too, a countryman come
to Dublin, and like him comfortably prosperous in business, would not buy a
house because he believed, in St. Paul's words, that we have no lasting city in
this life, and he equally rejected the idea of life insurance, which was new at
that time, because he considered that to insure one’s life was to bet against
God, which would not be right. He clearly remembered the news of Catholic
Emancipation when it was first passed in Parliament. They counted their
blessings carefully in those days. Infant mortality was high in all classes. The
illusion of security which we enjoy through modern medicine was unknown to any
of them. Joseph Marmion studied for the priesthood, and studied well, and was
seen as promising material for a life of learning, and perhaps much higher
things, as time went on. Who could tell? Our interest at this moment is in Joe Marmion' s vocation, and I think we
need to take stock how he has got to this stage. To begin with, we have that
surprising fact, surprising at least to a modern mind, that his parents dressed
him all life long in black, because they were convinced that he would study for
the priesthood. That seems a chancy sort of thing. Anyone who has ever been
concerned with preparing candidates for the priesthood, knows how difficult it
can be to discern a vocation, in other words how difficult to decide whether a
genuine, free, and conscious choice has been made by the student Does he know
what he is doing? And is the choice his own? If too much influence has been
exercised by either parent, or both, even with the best intentions, it may not
make for happiness and understanding later on. God's ways are mysterious, but we
must not presume. God wants us to use our commonsense in the ordinary way, even
where holy things are concerned. Most vocations do come through the home, and
therefore through the parents, even if they are only made clear in later life.
The atmosphere of the home is the parents' doing, and their faith will be the
background which God's will can be most clearly recognised and learned. From
centuries back, in medieval times, religious houses were well used to "pueri
oblati" - "offered children, whose parents had given them to
monasteries and convents at a very early age, hoping, and in many cases
presuming, that they would fit in successfully in those surroundings all their
lives It often worked - there is no doubt of that. But in more modern times even
when Joe Marmion was at school, his parents seem almost to have been pushing
things a bit There is some evidence that his clothes caused some comment from
his companions. But he took it well, and seems to have been contented with what
was already planned for him. In fact God was clearly increasing his faith from
an early age. Joe seems to have thought often about life in a religious community, even
though he studied for the diocesan priesthood. The result was that he had an
awareness of both ways of doing things, the individual work of the priest in a
parish and diocesan affairs as well as the experience and understanding of
religious life which was to be so thoroughly complete by the time he could even
write a classic study of it such as 'Christ the life of the Monk' Nonetheless we
could be tempted to think of his entering Clonliffe as a sort of diversion from
his true path, a distraction from the main road he was called to follow. This is
where we would be mistaken, both concerning Joe Marmion's vocation, and our own
While we cannot presume to read God's thoughts, I believe it is essential to
recognise the purpose of what 'happens to us', as we might think of it, in life,
and to learn to appreciate the extent to which the faithful soul is guided in
decisions and choices in order to contribute to the ultimate fulfilment of God's
will and the completion of the work intended for the life of each one. I am
thinking here of the 'Faithful Soul', by whom I mean the ordinary man or woman
who does their best to serve God faithfully, and to carry out God's will. In
other words the vast majority of ordinary Catholics. It is not necessary, and in
fact it is not at all helpful, to see the lives of those who in later times have
been recognised as saints, in terms of constantly heroic decisions and
initiatives. We must all grow up, and in life we must all be lead. That's how
life works. Any young person who fell completely outside this pattern would be
something of a freak. Joe Marmion was a thoroughly natural boy. Joe was accepted
as a student for Clonliffe at the age of fifteen and a half. That was quite
normal. Third-level education, in whatever form, usually begun in those days at
the age of sixteen. Joe was apparently awarded a 'scholarship'. It would be
interesting to know what this amounted to. Was it simply an admission to the
college, or did it mean that he didn't have to pay fees? Or rather, that his
family didn't have to pay fees? The point is important. The Marmion family was
comfortably off, but they were not rich. During Joe's time in Clonliffe his
father died. From then on there would have been constant concern about money.
Three of his sisters entered religious life, and dowries of some sort were
probably expected. In Clonliffe there was always a concern to help student'
families by alleviation of fees as far as possible, reducing them progressively
as ordination approached. No doubt these factors were weighed when Joe was sent
to Rome, halfway through his theology course, as endowments might have been
available to help out there. In all, Joe spent scarcely two years in Rome. Arriving
in Clonliffe with a good grounding in Latin and Greek from Belvedere, he had
done well in his studies, and he was considered in Rome to be among the better
students. Immediately after ordination, at the age of twenty-three, he was
called back to Dublin. There seems to have been some concern about his health,
but he must have been keen to see his family again, after two years' absence,
and the diocese had need of his services. It was at this time that he first came
in contact with Benedictine monasticism, first on a visit to Monte Cassino, and
then on a visit to Maredsous in Belgium, while journeying home to Dublin.
Maredsous made a deep impression on him. His inclination to community life
received a new impetus at that time. Joe's first appointment was as a curate in Dundrum,
where he stayed a year, with chaplaincy duties at the central mental hospital,
and at Mount Annville. It is a notable testimony to his qualities that he was
remembered. Few young priests receive that tribute in their first year of
ministry. From Dundrum he was appointed to the staff of Clonliffe
College. This was almost certainly to his liking, as he had a gift for the sort
of teaching involved, and the college would have afforded him the opportunity
for further reading and study, to which he was equally inclined. He acted as
chaplain to the recently founded Redemptoristine Convent close by, where the
contemplative life of the enclosed community will also have made an impression.
He remained in Clonliffe for four years. Clonliffe was a new college -just twenty-three years
old when Fr. Joe came on the staff, - and there must have been a good deal of
the enthusiasm that goes with new beginnings. His duties were probably
stimulating, but very demanding. There were standards set by others to be
measured up to, and the preparation of courses would have made great demands on
anyone as conscientious as he was. But life there cannot fail to have been full
of interest. Still those four years were undoubtedly a time of searching and
decision. The question of his future direction in the priesthood, since he had
already taken an interest in monastic life, and since, as we know, he
subsequently followed the call in that direction, must have been constantly in
his mind. By ordination he was called to serve in Dublin diocese, and at the
ordination ceremony, like every other priest, he promised obedience and loyalty
to Dublin's archbishop. The decision to 'change course', so
to speak, was a huge one, and he can have had little peace of mind while he was
coming to make it. He must have thought through a formidable number of issues at
this time, between his intense studies for teaching purposes, and the very real
struggle to see what was the right way forward. He was successful, and well
appreciated, where he was. His work was needed, and his archbishop and those in
authority over him counted on his loyalty. His family, now without a father,
counted on him for some support and a considerable leadership. The way ahead can
only have been found in the midst of great perplexity. But find it he did. He
broke with everything around him, and went to Maredsous. It says a lot for all
concerned that, while there were regrets on all sides to be overcome, his
leaving was accompanied by goodwill on the part of all who knew him. There is no
record of any resentment at his going, so far as I am aware. There is a certain role in society filled by those
whose position, usually in training or instructing others, calls on them to put
other people to the test, to try them out. I sometimes thank God that I have
never had to fill this role myself. The idea of 'trying other people out' fills
me with horror. On coming to Maredsous, Joe Marmion met an outsize specimen of
that particular race - his novice master, Dom Benoit D'Hondt. It can't have
helped, at one level, that Dom Benoit was clearly a man of the most
irreproachable virtue, the very picture of asceticism and self-denial. You
couldn't fault him on anything - but he could fault you. In fact, that was his
job. It's clear Columba Marmion, as we have to call him from now on, had as
difficult a time in adjusting to his new country as anyone ever did. There is a
certain Flemish heavy-footedness, and a certain Wallonian intensity, that seem
to combine in varying proportions to make the Belgian temperament. I hope I
don't sound too prejudiced. As a nation, I consider the Belgians have varied and
most wonderful gifts. I admire their art and architecture, and a marvellous
cosmopolitanism of theirs, very greatly. But they are not Irish - and I am sure
Father Marmion discovered his own Irishness, probably to his dismay, in a way he
had never done before, at this time. There was such serious business to be done
- and his monastic companions were so serious about doing it - and he himself
had a simply irrepressible sense of fun. It's very clear, from things that
others said about him, that there were times they weren't sure what to make of
him. In the last analysis this can only have meant considerable suffering, until
all concerned had learned to know and appreciate one another. But learn they did
- in the long run. It can all be dressed up in pious prose when writing the
lives of saints, but it is all so normal, and so natural, and something we have
all gone through at one time or another, when everything is said and done. It
was the making of him. And after three unimaginably demanding years of it he was
accepted, and valued for his qualities and gifts. And then they sent him to Louvain. Here there was what
amounted to a daughter house of Maredsous, in the new house at Mont Cesar which
was shortly to be made an abbey in its own right. Here were sent young monks
from Maredsous, to learn Philosophy and Theology at the famous University there.
And here is where I find something altogether intriguing: for here was our hero
- in the storyteller's expression - under new circumstances and after so much
had happened in the meantime - back at essentially the same task he had left
behind him in Clonliffe. He is once more directing students and guiding them in
many ways, and he is once more doing chaplaincy duties to communities of nuns,
and, as ever, much appreciated in both capacities. It may well be that the whole
thing was now raised to a more exalted level and more elaborate than it had been
in Dublin. Dom Columba was made prior of the new foundation and given perhaps an
authority he had not had before. He now had contacts in a famous theological
faculty of a sort that Dublin could not match in those times, and he gave much
appreciated retreats and conferences to religious, of a quality he could not
have matched in earlier and less experienced years in Ireland, but the Gospel is
the Gospel, and souls are souls, whether simple or sophisticated, and while the
Lord himself had undoubtedly guided him to foreign shores, he was put to the
same tasks once again, for which the grace of God and his own natural gifts so
particularly suited him. His vocation was the same - the surroundings were
utterly different. God doesn't change his mind. We change our own so many times. Spiritual progress demands of us all a progressive
renunciation of everything we have and are. This is accomplished in the life of
everyone, but for each in different ways. In going to Mont Cesar Columba Marmion
was asked to transfer the 'stability' he had promised to the Abbey of Maredsous
and attach it now to this new house. It was, in principle, a permanent
commitment, and thus a permanent renunciation. It must have cost him dearly. And
then, after ten years, he was brought back, this time as Abbot to the
Benedictine monastery he had first entered. It was a formidable assignment, to
head this foundation which aspired to so much prestige and standing in its
church and country. We are used, in Ireland, to religious foundations which
begin in poverty and build slowly and haphazardly as circumstances permit.
Maredsous was richly endowed from the start, and rose a great and impressive
building, as fast as the builders could work. When its second Abbot, this still
barely acclimatised Irishman, took over, it was already a great community of
over a hundred monks. Soon they asked him for another renunciation. It did not
seem suitable, at a time when nations were beginning to distrust each other and
to sense the coming of war, that the superior of such a notable house should be
an outsider. He became a naturalised Belgian. And then war came. And here again his vocation. His
very Irishness was demanded once again. Disguised as a cattle dealer -1 would
love to have seen him – he made his way from occupied Belgium, through neutral
Holland, to England, and on to Ireland, without either passport or papers of any
kind. It was a journey which could never have been made in the second world war,
but in the first Belgium was never completely overrun, and Holland remained
neutral all through the war years. And until 1914 the only country in Europe
which demanded passports was the Russian Empire. At home in Queen Street long
ago, he must have often seen cattle dealers in Smithfield and the local
neighbourhood. But he never saw himself in that role before. In Ireland he found a refuge for part of his community
at Edermine, in Wexford. No one else in Maredsous could have brought it off. The
Lord had put him in that place for that need. And then he made his way back to
Maredsous still in the middle of wartime, in 1916. It must have taken tremendous
courage, tremendous nerve. There was as much of James Bond in that journey as
there was of St. Benedict. When war ended he had five years of life left - to
dress his communities psychological wounds and spread healing in his two
nations. It was in these last years that his writings - the harvest of his
spiritual husbandry over many years, made the graces he had received available
to all the world. What am I saying, about his vocation and our own, in all of this? I am convinced each one of us, thinking over it, can find parts of our own story in parts of his. I am convinced God leads each one of us, continually through life, to do the work God wants us to do, and in the place where he wants us to be.
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